The Virus of Low Willingness

The process of developing needs some actions. And some actions would not come true without any willingness to do so. And now, let me make it simpler. The machine of self development needs enough and continuous supply of 'willingness oil' to start their engine so that it can operate well.

To have a good supply for the system to deliver the oil of willingness, we must understand its overall distribution mechanism. After that, we can observe, take some tests and diagnose for some possible 'error tasking' which make it unable to run well. These are what we call some possible reasons which make people have low willingness. In my opinion, there are 3 major things which have to be controlled more seriously. Those Are:


The Historical Disappointment and Trauma Accumulation. Normally, every person has a lot of bad things happening in their life. Everyone always has some experience of feel disappointed. But not every person can control and manage it well, so that even for some people, feeling bad in a long period could be harmful and dangerous. Because, for some people, the memory of some bad experiences could construct a build of Trauma.

Low of Confidence. For some people, they try to lock themselves from being initiative and more active. One of the factors is shyness.

Avoiding Every Difficult Conditions which Entail " Hard Work". Do you remember a jargon which tells us "a problem couldn't be solved just by avoiding it" ?. Exactly, you're right, actually we have a very dynamic life. Problems always accompany us. So, we cannot just be static and try to escape from the process of finding solutions.

After all, by knowing and understanding those reasons, what should we do then? Try to implement these:

a. See ‘willingness’ from more constructive side,- and based on these points, (1) Try to do anything better,- do not just stay silent or complain the conditions. Make your life meaningful, that's what we call 'make our life to be attractive'. (2) By initiating, You have already got a big chance to be the first. REMEMBER: Be First, Be Best, and Be Different !

b. Every process starts from the 1st step,- read this: "Successful people actually feel the same boredom as the failures, BUT successful people do something boring and they succeed in passing it."

c. Never be afraid of failing, - because failing is a a very good lesson which can be very crucial to your self development process to be successful..